11 Common Mother-of-the-Groom Responsibilities

Attend Vendor Meetings or Dress Fittings

• Join meetings with caterers, florists, or even dress fittings (if her input is welcome).
• Can help create special memories and provide thoughtful guidance.
• Boundaries are important if planning becomes stressful.

Coordinate Her Wedding Look With Your Mom

• Communicate directly with the mother of the bride to plan cohesive outfits for the wedding.

Connect With Your Parents

• Help build relationships between both families.
• Organize casual get-togethers or share special moments during the wedding.

Help With the Guest List

• Collect names, addresses, and RSVPs from her side of the family.
• Assist with seating arrangements as the wedding approaches.

Suggest Traditions for the Ceremony

• Offer insights on family or religious customs.
• Suggest special readings or rituals to include in the wedding.

Offer Financial Support

• Traditionally contributes to the rehearsal dinner.
• May also assist with costs such as:
  • Bridal party hair and makeup
  • Wedding cake
  • The bride’s dress (in some cultures)

Attend the Bridal Shower

• Can host or co-host if the mother of the bride is unavailable.
• Maintain open communication with the bride to ensure her preferences are honored.

Host the Rehearsal Dinner

• Plan and fund the dinner while respecting the couple’s wishes regarding scale, location, and cuisine.
• May also contribute to the honeymoon, marriage license, or officiant fee costs.

Manage Breakfast and Refreshments the Morning of the Wedding

• Make sure the wedding party is well-fed and ready for the day.

Provide Emotional Support

• Offer a listening ear, help relieve stress, and be a supportive presence during planning and on the wedding day.

Help Round Up Guests Before the Reception & Take Part in the Mother-Son Dance

• Ensure guests are seated and organized, especially at multiple venues.
• Assist the groom in choosing the mother-son dance song, then enjoy the celebration.

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