Every wedding is unique, but one thing is always true: no couple can (or should) try to do everything. The most successful celebrations start with a clear understanding of priorities. Whether you’re planning a destination wedding in Florianópolis or a local celebration with family and friends, knowing your top must-haves will help you stay on budget, true to your vision, and stress-free.
At VOAR Mansion in Ribeirão da Ilha, we see it all the time: couples who clearly define their wedding priorities from the beginning are able to make decisions with ease and create a celebration that truly reflects who they are.
Here’s why priorities matter—and how to set them as you begin your planning journey.
Think of your priorities as a road map. They guide every decision—from the venue and décor to the food, music, and guest experience. Whenever you’re faced with a choice, you can ask: Does this align with what we said matters most?This keeps planning intentional and prevents overwhelm.
Budgets stretch only so far. Deciding what’s truly important allows you to channel resources into what matters—whether that’s a live band, breathtaking flowers, or an intimate multi-course dinner. At VOAR Mansion, many couples tell us their top priorities are:
By defining these early, your budget naturally supports your vision instead of scattering across things you don’t really care about.
Wedding planning can sometimes lead to disagreements. Clear priorities give couples a shared compass. If one partner dreams of elaborate décor while the other cares most about music, identifying that early avoids conflicts later. It also makes conversations with parents or family contributors much smoother.
In the earliest days after your engagement, begin by dreaming together. Imagine your wedding in Florianópolis: What do you want it to feel like? Romantic and intimate? Grand and glamorous? Relaxed and beach-inspired? Discuss the mood before diving into details.
Pick three to five elements you care about most. This could be:
Just as important: decide what’s not a priority. For example, if elaborate stationery or late-night snacks don’t matter to you, let them go.
Instead of saying “great food,” specify what that means—perhaps a Brazilian-inspired menu with fresh seafood from the bay, or a multi-course fine dining experience. Instead of “fun party,” decide whether that’s a live samba band, a DJ, or both.
Once you have a sense of your must-haves, bring them to a planner who knows Florianópolis. The VOAR Mansion wedding team helps couples refine priorities and turn them into action—making sure your budget and vendors align with your vision.
Every decision creates a ripple effect. If your top priority is an intimate, luxurious experience for 50 guests, that may mean investing more per guest in food, décor, and wine—while keeping the guest list smaller. If your dream is a huge, joyful dance party with 200 friends, you’ll allocate resources differently.
Your wedding priorities are more than a checklist—they’re the foundation of your entire celebration. By defining them early, you ensure every choice aligns with your values, vision, and budget. And most importantly, you create a day that feels authentically you.
At VOAR Mansion in Florianópolis, we love helping couples turn their priorities into unforgettable celebrations by the sea. From the first conversation to the last dance, our dedicated team is here to guide you.
👉 Ready to start planning your dream wedding in Florianópolis? Call our wedding team today—we’ll help you set your priorities and bring them beautifully to life.